Family And My Family - 1010 Words

Families, they might be annoying and overbearing at times, but regardless we love our families just as they love you. It doesn’t matter what color, nationality, differing personality’s or even beliefs. Most can agree that no matter how out of this world your family might be you have something in common with others families maybe even more than you might think. Alice walker’s everyday use is a story about a family whose problem may not that different than most families. Mama and her daughters have an appreciation for their heritage, but they struggle to see each other point of view in â€Å"Everyday use† the fictitious family and my family have some similarities and differences concerning Differing perspective, Hard working parents and issue†¦show more content†¦de says â€Å"I couldn’t bear it any longer, being named after the people who oppress me† (55) meaning that since it’s not an African origin name and more likely that i t came from white people that she doesn’t want it. whereas her mother tells her that she got it from her aunt Dicie and before that her grandma. I have two middle names Tatyana and niche; I have always hated the name Tatyana and wanted to get it changed. My mother told me no because my aunt had given me that name. Dee believes the things that she learned about heritage means more than mamas knowledge of heritage. Mama â€Å"in fact, I probably could have carried it back beyond the Civil War through the branches† (56) meaning that she could have traced it back far, she knew all that she needed about her heritage were as Dee sees her as incompetent because she doesn’t know about her African roots. Personality I connect to this by which Im the nerdy, oddball out my family and sometimes when I talk to people like my siblings or the adults in my family I feel that I’m higher up .In a way when speck sometime I feel like I’m talking to a brick wall. Duri ng an argument Dee and Mama has a disagreement of the quilts should be used. mama says that wants Maggie to have and to use the quilts were as Dee thinks that she should have the quilts and use them as decoration (58). 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